@nertog
The ccStudio plot makes no sense. It shows a combo that can reach absolute black on paper (L=0). Those gamut plots should faithfully represent the patches measured by your spectro... and you can check this: does the Lab-value of the darkest point in the plot correspond to the black patches you´ve printed on the target sheet (Spotread to verify)
I can see how the ccStudio plot doesn’t make sense for showing the displayable gamut of my printer/paper combination. Obviously it can not print absolute black. Yet I get darker blacks using the ccStudio profile.
I create profiles not to find out about the paper gamut but to get nice looking prints. For this I seem to have to use ccStudio.
Apparently it is not possible to reproduce a similar behavior to ccStudio with ArgyllCMS (stretching the black point to absolute black, which seems to make the printer print darker darks).
Because of this I will have to use ccStudio with all its downsides (waste more paper, not being able to share the profiles). At least I get correct prints.
Thank you so much for your help anyways. I will still have to check out the -S/-s parameters. Maybe this does some magic.

@Ink stained Fingers
I think lthis case is closed for me at this point, we have discussed the differences in quite some detail, and it is now up to you - @lmylm - to make it working for you and what you expect from a profile - within the constraints of the available programs.
Thank you so much for all your help. I really appreciate the insight I got from your messages. Obviously with the gained knowledge I still only skim the surface and there are still some areas in this topic that confuse me. I will dig deeper though, my profiling journey has only just begun!
In the meantime I got a Windows environment running and installed Gamutvision which will help me a lot completing my knowledge to my satisfactory. I will start by finding out what the “simulated neutral density curves”
@nertog mentioned are about.
Thanks again
@Ink stained Fingers!
For now I feel like what I wish for doesn’t exist. As soon as I find more energy to dive deeper, I might have more questions. And who knows, maybe one day I can contribute my own PrinterKnowledge. Thank you all for being so supportive!
Also, thank you
@pharmacist 